Why Positive Mental Attitudes Matters by Dr. Daphne Clarke-Hudson

Many of us grew up hearing these words “The SKY is the limit

You can do ANYTHING you set “YOUR MIND” to. Yes! Millions of people all around the World do believe this to be true and have manifested big dreams and goal because of this truth.

Regardless of your situation! and the environment, you can choose to recondition, reprogram, develop and train your mind to get the correct result you need. It requires lots of inner work and often times we will need to UNLEARN and RELEARN some things.  Cultivating a positive mental attitude means that many people will need to destroy their precious molds that they have held to for dear life! for many years. These molds are in the form of habits, customs, beliefs and rituals which have been a noise around their necks and shackles around their ankles. You and I have the POWER within to change all of this when we decide we no longer want them as part of who we are. It will only take three easy steps.


In this article, my focus will be in five areas that will assist us to BE sure that we always maintain a positive mental mindset so we can get the results we desire and search for.  Please never forget that Positive Mental Attitudes will take you higher in your accomplishments than even your degrees will. There are so many individuals who have never gone higher than an elementary education ……yet has used their positive mental attitudes to accomplish GREAT things.

Focus Area One:  Self-Acceptance

There is an activity I share with new clients, I call it the antibiotic! I tell them they will need to take it twice a day until they have rid themselves of the infections they are suffering from.

Here are some of the infection people are carrying around:



Low Self-esteem

Judgments of self and others

Inferiority Complex

And so much more.  Below is my prescription for their antibiotic to be taking twice a day first thing in the morning and last thing at night.

You will need the following:

1 Pen

2 Index Cards

1 Mirror

On one index card write the Title Morning and the other Title Night

Write this statement on both cards X 3 times repeat this in front of the mirror while looking directly in your eyes as you speak these words.

  1. I Honor who you are
  2. I Honor what you are
  3. I Honor who you are
  4. I Honor what you are
  5. I Honor who you are
  6. I Honor what you are

 Focus Area Two:  Self-Love

There are times when we GIVE so much to the world and we forget to give to the MOST important person SELF. The bottom line is we cannot give what we don’t have, so I encourage you to always maintain an overflow from which you GIVE.

Focus Area Three: Realize that ONLY you can control your ACTIONS

One of the GREATEST treasures in taking full advantage of our Positive Mental Attitude is the certainty in knowing that only YOU can control your outcomes. We can all take a sigh of relieve on this one.

Focus Area Four: Know YOUR Personal POWER

When we have a marriage between Personal Power and Positive Mental Attitude

That’s a winning relationship to help us build and create legacies and empires.

Focus Area Five: Never neglect to embrace life.

Always embrace life, live each minute to the fullest. Positive mental attitude prepares us to create joy, happiness, accept our uniqueness and authenticity and be BOLD and UNAPOLOGICTC about who we are. Let me hope that you have enough reason to now engage in Positive Mental Attitude.


3 Reasons Why Sales Professionals Need A Life Coach

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No matter how well you’re doing in your sales career, I guarantee that a life coach can help you rise to an even greater level of success – a life coach could probably even double your income this year alone. That may sound like a bold statement, but I’ve seen results exactly that dramatic time and time again. So, if you’ve never heard of a life coach, or are familiar with the concept but aren’t really sure how they can help you grow as a sales professional, let me fill you in. Continue reading

Innovation Is A State Of Mind


You probably know the myth of innovation as a sudden flash of insight that comes from nowhere. We read about that “aha” moment, or that light bulb turning on in the mind of some inventor or innovator, and this is true to an extent. Einstein really did get flashes of insight while shaving in the morning. However, he was of course working on the particular problems he had insight into, and he didn’t suddenly have ideas for new kitchen gadgets or movie plots.  Continue reading

5 Simple Ways to Kick Start Your Goal-Setting


There are five important, yet simple steps to follow, which I believe are necessary for seemingly impossible goals to be achieved.

Step Number One

Spend some quiet time and write down exactly what the change or changes will be and why you want them, this is the first crucial step towards achieving goals.  At this stage, write only what it is you’d like to achieve and why.  The ‘how’s’ and ‘when’s’ can come later. Continue reading

7 Tips to Make You More Creative


Many great things have started as a simple, creative idea. Consider donating some of your best ideas to help others. The more creative you are, the more ideas you will be able to create. You can be creative even if you don’t think you are.

I have known many people that were scared to use a computer for the first few times. However, after diving into it they became more comfortable. They were willing to take a risk and make some mistakes. The result was an ability to learn and do things they would never be able to do without the use of a computer.

Being creative and thinking up world-changing ideas occurs in the same way. Everyone can be creative but they have to be willing to start. The creative process will then become more natural over time. Continue reading

Dealing with Emotions in Self Mastery


The process of self-control is referred to as the capability of a person to motivate him in order to do thing he needs to do. It also refers to hamper oneself from indulging in wrong deeds.

Self-control is described rationally as an endeavour on the self of an individual that embalms both the process of consideration and the behaviour. The process of self-control can be achieved by having a sharp insight and a strong will to set fixed boundaries. Self-control is a wide term that comprises both resolution and veneration. Self-control is a brilliant tool that plays a crucial role in helping an entity to work out control over their mortification. Continue reading

Self Determination and Desires


What do you desire from life? Do you want material goods, such as a nice house, car, money, fame, glory, or self-determination? Perhaps you already own a fancy car, nice house and have plenty of money but it does not seem fulfilling. Have you ever sit down and projected the reimbursement from building self-determination? You can ask questions so you will realize what you are missing, which can help you find answers and decide what degree of determination you possess. Determination is our strength of mind. The higher the level of determination we have builds on willpower and helps us to find resolves. We find our purpose. In addition to building on the determination and other qualities, we also build staying power, resilience, stamina and so on. Self-determination determines our magnitude to withstand any situation.  Continue reading

How to build a vision for yourself


If you are someone that needs to find a vision for yourself you will want to make sure that you are following through with what life has in store for you. There are endless possibilities for everyone.  If you are looking to make something great of yourself then you will need to set some priorities and goals for yourself so that you are well on your way to a better and bigger future. Continue reading

How to Check Your Confidence Levels

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Would you like to be confident? Your answer may be – yes; I do want to be confident. However, this answer lacks the impact. It is too generalized. Just like everybody wants to do well in life and be rich but not many ever realize this wish. This is because to actually get somewhere in life, you need to quantify your confidence. You need to define the task for which you need to be confident so that you can execute it successfully.  A mere wish to be confident won’t take you anywhere. The dream must have a deadline as well!  Continue reading