I was first thinking, when exactly does one start to yearn for acceptance?

Is it when we are born?
Is it when we first feel the pain of non-acceptance?
Is it when we begin to be challenged in sports?
Is it when we fall into the ever talked about `peer pressure`?
Is it when we fall in love?
Is it when we start a new job?
Is it when we become a new member of a family?
Is it when we move to a new city or country?
Is it when we write our very first book? Continue reading


5 Simple Ways to Kick Start Your Goal-Setting


There are five important, yet simple steps to follow, which I believe are necessary for seemingly impossible goals to be achieved.

Step Number One

Spend some quiet time and write down exactly what the change or changes will be and why you want them, this is the first crucial step towards achieving goals.  At this stage, write only what it is you’d like to achieve and why.  The ‘how’s’ and ‘when’s’ can come later. Continue reading

7 Tips to Make You More Creative


Many great things have started as a simple, creative idea. Consider donating some of your best ideas to help others. The more creative you are, the more ideas you will be able to create. You can be creative even if you don’t think you are.

I have known many people that were scared to use a computer for the first few times. However, after diving into it they became more comfortable. They were willing to take a risk and make some mistakes. The result was an ability to learn and do things they would never be able to do without the use of a computer.

Being creative and thinking up world-changing ideas occurs in the same way. Everyone can be creative but they have to be willing to start. The creative process will then become more natural over time. Continue reading

The Power of Positive Attitude


I am going to ask you to something very weird right now. First of all, I want you to listen to your thoughts. Now tell me, what thoughts fill your head? Would you label them as positive, or negative?

Now let’s say you are walking down the street with these thoughts. Do you think anyone who would meet you would be able to tell you what’s on your mind?

The answer to number one is up to you. But, the answer number two can be pretty generic. Although people will not be able to tell you exactly what you think, they will more or less have an idea of how you are feeling. Continue reading

Dealing with Emotions in Self Mastery


The process of self-control is referred to as the capability of a person to motivate him in order to do thing he needs to do. It also refers to hamper oneself from indulging in wrong deeds.

Self-control is described rationally as an endeavour on the self of an individual that embalms both the process of consideration and the behaviour. The process of self-control can be achieved by having a sharp insight and a strong will to set fixed boundaries. Self-control is a wide term that comprises both resolution and veneration. Self-control is a brilliant tool that plays a crucial role in helping an entity to work out control over their mortification. Continue reading

Self Determination and Desires


What do you desire from life? Do you want material goods, such as a nice house, car, money, fame, glory, or self-determination? Perhaps you already own a fancy car, nice house and have plenty of money but it does not seem fulfilling. Have you ever sit down and projected the reimbursement from building self-determination? You can ask questions so you will realize what you are missing, which can help you find answers and decide what degree of determination you possess. Determination is our strength of mind. The higher the level of determination we have builds on willpower and helps us to find resolves. We find our purpose. In addition to building on the determination and other qualities, we also build staying power, resilience, stamina and so on. Self-determination determines our magnitude to withstand any situation.  Continue reading

How to build a vision for yourself


If you are someone that needs to find a vision for yourself you will want to make sure that you are following through with what life has in store for you. There are endless possibilities for everyone.  If you are looking to make something great of yourself then you will need to set some priorities and goals for yourself so that you are well on your way to a better and bigger future. Continue reading

Obstacles in Building Self-Confidence


Know what’s holding you back.

It’s great that you have decided to build your self-confidence. However, there are a few obstacles that can keep you from achieving your goal. Most of the time, these obstacles are so obvious that they do not seem like obstacles at all, and all you can see is that your resolve to be self-confident is not taking you anywhere. Therefore, it is important to become aware of these seemingly harmless obstacles that have all the power to stop you in your path. Let’s have a look at what could be the reasons that you are not moving ahead in top gear. Continue reading

How to Check Your Confidence Levels

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Would you like to be confident? Your answer may be – yes; I do want to be confident. However, this answer lacks the impact. It is too generalized. Just like everybody wants to do well in life and be rich but not many ever realize this wish. This is because to actually get somewhere in life, you need to quantify your confidence. You need to define the task for which you need to be confident so that you can execute it successfully.  A mere wish to be confident won’t take you anywhere. The dream must have a deadline as well!  Continue reading